Story by princess Anne lamoste – Cagayan deoro city.
1. Your Sacrifice Matters
You stopped school to support your sibling and help your family. That’s not weakness—it’s courage. Remember:
- Education isn’t just about school. Life teaches resilience, responsibility, and compassion—you’re learning these now.
- Your work honors your family. You’re already “giving back” through your sacrifice.
2. Prioritize YOUR Future Too
You deserve education. Solutions exist:
- ALS (Alternative Learning System): Free education for out-of-school youth. Finish high school at your own pace while working.
- Where to go: Visit the nearest DepEd office or barangay hall. Ask about ALS classes nearby.
- TESDA Scholarships: Free vocational courses (caregiving, cooking, tech skills). Short training → better jobs → support family while building your future.
- Search: “TESDA [your province]” online for local offerings.
3. Healing Family Relationships
- “Mabalos” (Giving back): Show love through actions, not just material payback.
- Small wins: Share daily achievements (“Nakapag-ipon ako para sa project ni manghud!”), help with chores, express gratitude.
- Stepfather dynamics: If tension exists, lead with kindness. Prove your sincerity through consistency—not confrontation. Time softens hearts.
4. Self-Care is Essential
- You can’t pour from an empty cup. Rest when exhausted. Keep a journal for your dreams. Talk to a trusted teacher/barangay counselor.
- Affirmation: “My pause is not permanent. My heart will reopen my future.”
Next Steps:
- This week: Inquire about ALS/TESDA. Just ask—no commitment yet.
- Your sibling: Encourage their studies. Your dream lives through them too.
- Parents: Whisper, “Ma, Pa, gigihun nako para sa pamilya. Pero mangandoy gihapon ko muhuman. Tabangi ko?” (I’m working hard for us, but I still dream of finishing school. Will you help me?).
Princess, your heart is gold. Stopping school doesn’t mean surrendering—it means fighting differently. Your parents’ joy won’t come from grand gestures, but seeing you persist despite the struggle. You’re already making them proud. 🌟
Padayon, anak. Your story isn’t over.
